you guys ever feel depressed?

[Grungo]

me feel depressed because I don't have school anymore and me feel no purpose in life, on top of that I am socially inept and I don't got much friends to talk to irl.

 

I wish I wasn't so stupid

[8088mph]

my parents don't treat me like i'm driving, taking care of the house, and working a job, instead they have the same rules in place since i was seven.

my irl friends are toxic as shit.

my parents rarely have the time or are too tired to do anything with me.

my only source of escape, the computer, is cut off by 7pm, which gives me 30 minutes of screen time after doing chores and showering on school days.

Edited May 22 by 8088mph

[Chezza]

Nope, I'm good.

 

But I hope you feel better soon.

 

You could try do some charity work like one night at a soup kitchen. Get out of your comfort zone and be surrounded by the less fortunate with bad smells, broken families, no comfort likely with drug and mental issues. Being forced to be around them by helping them may change your perception of what happiness and contentment looks like.

 

Also, try not fear the unforeseen. Having no plan of attack for your future doesn't mean you're hopeless. There is a partner, friend, job, (and likely more than one) out there that you will fit well in and be happy with. How quickly you want that depends on how often you're prepared to take on challenges that you're not even sure you can manage.

 

One more thing. Don't fear failure. Failure when attempting something isn't necessarily a bad thing. Olympic champions and wealthy entrepreneurs are literally successful based on trying things, failing, dusting themselves off and keep trying. You probably failed / died many times in your favourite video games but you didn't perceive that as a big enough problem to keep trying right?

Edited May 22 by Chezza

[VICE]

Spoiler

 

[Sonikkumania]

3 hours ago, Grungo said:

me feel depressed because I don't have school anymore and me feel no purpose in life, on top of that I am socially inept and I don't got much friends to talk to irl.

 

I wish I wasn't so stupid

So what school you attended?

[Grungo]

3 hours ago, Sonikkumania said:

So what school you attended?

a ok one

[Grungo]

7 hours ago, Chezza said:

Nope, I'm good.

 

But I hope you feel better soon.

 

You could try do some charity work like one night at a soup kitchen. Get out of your comfort zone and be surrounded by the less fortunate with bad smells, broken families, no comfort likely with drug and mental issues. Being forced to be around them by helping them may change your perception of what happiness and contentment looks like.

 

Also, try not fear the unforeseen. Having no plan of attack for your future doesn't mean you're hopeless. There is a partner, friend, job, (and likely more than one) out there that you will fit well in and be happy with. How quickly you want that depends on how often you're prepared to take on challenges that you're not even sure you can manage.

 

One more thing. Don't fear failure. Failure when attempting something isn't necessarily a bad thing. Olympic champions and wealthy entrepreneurs are literally successful based on trying things, failing, dusting themselves off and keep trying. You probably failed / died many times in your favourite video games but you didn't perceive that as a big enough problem to keep trying right?

thank you

[Sonikkumania]

7 minutes ago, Grungo said:

a ok one

So what like that highschool of life?

[Taw Tu'lki]

Every february.

But now on May.

No ideas to draw and create something. Sometimes I dunno what to do (but working in my job, of course).

[Grungo]

9 hours ago, Sonikkumania said:

So what like that highschool of life?

me like do projects and be occupied by knowledge and be surrounded by teachers who wouldn't verbally abuse me 

[ALilGrayBoi]

I felt depressed as shit after a messy break up. It was REALLY BAD. But since then I’ve felt better. Every know and then I question life but you just gotta be grateful for what you have. In fact Doom is what kept my mind off of all that when I was still recovering from it. Find a passion, set an absurd goal. Even if it’s something stupid like beating Mario 64 with the least amount of A presses. Do something to keep you occupied as long as it’s not harming you. I’ve been working towards my goal of being a successful game dev.

[Milkeno]

On 5/22/2024 at 12:34 AM, Grungo said:

me feel depressed because I don't have school anymore and me feel no purpose in life, on top of that I am socially inept and I don't got much friends to talk to irl.

 

I wish I wasn't so stupid

I'm sort of in the same spot, I have no social aspects of what school is only the hard test parts and me doing it is also holding me back in my potential of doing projects, my only advice for you is to install linux you'll always be fixing stuff and if your lucky you might turn into a radical and find fulfillment in those beliefs. I hope you get out of the spot your in.

Edited May 29 by Milkeno

[Baron T. Mueriach]

This thread is fucking sad. I feel more isolated than I do depressed, I’ve never been depressed in my life as far as I’m concerned.

[magicsofa]

On 5/22/2024 at 1:34 AM, Grungo said:

me feel depressed because I don't have school anymore and me feel no purpose in life

 

Get a job. Preferably one that is outdoors and physical enough that you actually get tired. You clearly don't actually need the money so you could work on literally any farm and get paid in vegetables. I won't tell you the purpose of life but I can tell you that the purpose of your body is not to just hold up your brain while you think about nothing all day. Also, when you learn first-hand the energy it takes to create your food, you might gain a better appreciation for just being able to eat. 

[Grungo]

4 hours ago, magicsofa said:

 

Get a job. Preferably one that is outdoors and physical enough that you actually get tired. You clearly don't actually need the money so you could work on literally any farm and get paid in vegetables. I won't tell you the purpose of life but I can tell you that the purpose of your body is not to just hold up your brain while you think about nothing all day. Also, when you learn first-hand the energy it takes to create your food, you might gain a better appreciation for just being able to eat. 

me need money or else homeless

 

no job me have ever had

 

mer nervous about getting job

[Grungo]

4 hours ago, magicsofa said:

 

Get a job. Preferably one that is outdoors and physical enough that you actually get tired. You clearly don't actually need the money so you could work on literally any farm and get paid in vegetables. I won't tell you the purpose of life but I can tell you that the purpose of your body is not to just hold up your brain while you think about nothing all day. Also, when you learn first-hand the energy it takes to create your food, you might gain a better appreciation for just being able to eat. 

but yes, grungo want vegetables, grungo need lose weight, need better diet

[VICE]

Reject societal standard of beauty

Eat entire mammoth

[LegendaryEevee]

@Grungo I'll be your friend.  Feel free to message me anytime.  Share your YT and I can follow and support there as well.  Trust me I fully understand the feeling, and am old enough to see all sides of it.

[Grungo]

2 minutes ago, LegendaryEevee said:

@Grungo I'll be your friend.  Feel free to message me anytime.  Share your YT and I can follow and support there as well.  Trust me I fully understand the feeling, and am old enough to see all sides of it.

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[Yousuf Anik]

Yeah because... that's how my life has become. I never thought that there would be so much pain and sufferings are coming, lol it's like Betruger from Doom3 was telling me "Sufferings and pain waits for you". I feel so depressed and worthless sometime. For me it's getting so struggling and difficult more and more that sometimes I think I can never get out of this.

 

But even after all these, whenever I feel so down on myself, I just think one thing: my family is still with me and I have to live, at least for them as long as I can. And finally... there is Doom, the game that always makes me smile, no matter what.

[Lila Feuer]

For the last two months in a row yes, depression's at an all-time high. I barely care about anything that isn't Doom atm. I eventually need to sort out my situation before I'm able to even find and start working, then hopefully maybe meet someone I can connect with physically as I've also been the loneliest I've felt since I was a teenager. I wouldn't consider myself socially awkward per-se but I am not a social type and am much more comfortable being a homebody.